am I grateful for

about loyalty and compassion

if my role is to make everyone else feel safe

about next weekend

some one is coming to see me and I dont really know why

about a friendship ending

you didn’t like my response

about getting on the same page about dating

about that last relationship in SF

if they like you more than you like them

about chance meetings

I finally get it

if some you follow and admire…changes

Getting together or not

is with me and non gay men liking me

happened outside of LA

about bad gift giving

know your subject

A 1st in the next county over

I did something I don't normally do! 

when I was 21

would u do

I Learned Today

Life Education never stops

is he about

My complex connection with men

Gay men. Straight men. Men.

about finessing

The Shortest Presidency and the Whig Party

For something different. Its Presidents Day and I am talking about a president no one talks about, William Henry Harrison, our 9th President and the m...

my thoughts on online couples

Making content as a couple and making it your identity. Also "having" to announce you are a couple in social media! 

should I do about a situation

People be triggered by others truths

about communication

I’m feeling good

Its Jan 2026, so far so good! 

I was 18... I needed the money

now I’m attractive?

Grief comes in waves

I’m not Superman

I want to do it all, but I cant 

about setting boundaries again

Setting boundaries during a tough time in life can be extra hard! 

my upbringing serves me well …today

I had an epiphany

about setting boundaries

are people thinking about roles in relationships

some people see relationship roles very oddly! 

Happy birthday? Daughter

3 years later and trying to use me

An unexpected text...